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Posted by LifeInParadise on March 13, 2008, 4:51 pm
Hello! Yes, it is nice to see we are not alone! My girlfriends have never talked about this issue, so I assume, whether incorrectly or not, that they do not have a problem with this. However, I believe they may be the "silent majority" of women who say it does not bother them, but in actuality--it does. How can something so personal NOT bother you in some form or another? It may not come out as insecurity or feeling bad about yourself, but it does manifest somehow...I know it does! I agree that the solution is not the philosophy of do unto others what they do to you...can you imagine the additional consequences those types of actions would cause in a relationship? Our talk did not go well at all and I am losing hope for my marriage. As I told him, if you are being truthful about saying "it means nothing", then how can you hold yourself (never mind about me!) and the commitment of marriage you made in such low regard and continue to behave this way? He had no reply... Thank you for saying so, but I actually wish I were stronger so that this could finally come to an end! I appreciate your feedback...it does help to vent...will keep you posted! Have a great week!
Hello! Yes, it is nice to see we are not alone! My girlfriends have never talked about this issue, so I assume, whether incorrectly or not, that they do not have a problem with this. However, I believe they may be the "silent majority" of women who say it does not bother them, but in actuality--it does. How can something so personal NOT bother you in some form or another? It may not come out as insecurity or feeling bad about yourself, but it does manifest somehow...I know it does! I agree that the solution is not the philosophy of do unto others what they do to you...can you imagine the additional consequences those types of actions would cause in a relationship? Our talk did not go well at all and I am losing hope for my marriage. As I told him, if you are being truthful about saying "it means nothing", then how can you hold yourself (never mind about me!) and the commitment of marriage you made in such low regard and continue to behave this way? He had no reply... Thank you for saying so, but I actually wish I were stronger so that this could finally come to an end! I appreciate your feedback...it does help to vent...will keep you posted! Have a great week!